TSK
Treasury of Scripture Knowledge references in NET.
The person who has my commandments and obeys them is the one who loves me. The one who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and will reveal myself to him.”
I am not saying this as a command, but I am testing the genuineness of your love by comparison with the eagerness of others.
Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her
By this the love of God is revealed in us: that God has sent his one and only Son into the world so that we may live through him.